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First time eating Korean food? Start here

Six dishes that aren't spicy, how a Korean meal is served, how ordering works, and the few table manners that matter.

Six dishes that aren't spicy

How a Korean meal works

  • Rice and soup are yoursEach person usually gets a bowl of rice, and often a soup.
  • Large dishes are sharedGrilled meat, pancakes and big pots of stew go in the middle for everyone. Many stews also come in single servings.
  • Side dishes come with the mealSmall plates called banchan arrive without ordering. Refills are usually free.
  • Spoon and chopsticksThe spoon is for rice and soup, chopsticks for everything else.

Ordering at a Korean restaurant

  1. Find a seat

    At many casual places you can take an empty table. If staff greet you or there is a waiting list, wait to be seated.

  2. Call or tap to order

    Many tables have a call button, a tablet or a kiosk by the door.

  3. Check the minimum

    Korean BBQ and some stews are often sold for two or more people.

  4. Pay when you leave

    Usually at the counter, unless you already paid at a kiosk. Tipping isn't expected.

Five table manners worth knowing

  • Don't stand your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice.
  • Leave your rice bowl on the table instead of lifting it to your mouth.
  • When eating with older people, let them start first.
  • When drinking with Koreans, pour for others rather than for yourself.
  • Turn your head slightly away when you drink in front of someone older.

How we rate spice

LevelWhat it means
Not spicyNo chili heat.
MildA little warmth. Fine for most people.
MediumClearly spicy. You'll want water nearby.
HotVery spicy, even for many Koreans.

Restaurants vary. To ask for less heat, say 덜 맵게 해 주세요 (deol maepge hae juseyo) — "please make it less spicy."

Common questions

Do I need to speak Korean to order?

No. Many restaurants have picture menus, and in tourist areas English menus are common. Pointing works too.

Do I tip in Korea?

No. Tipping isn't expected at Korean restaurants.

Is water free?

Usually, yes. In many places it's self-service.